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Legal Planning for Seniors

As seniors age, difficult decisions may eventually need to be made. If they still have the capacity to deal with their financial, legal, and healthcare affairs, legal planning for seniors should begin as soon as possible. “In our culture, there seems to be this idea that we are always going to be able to take care of things. Unfortunately, we never know when we will have had our best season,” says Terry Hammond, executive director of the National Guardianship Association.

It’s usually best when discussions about final wishes happen organically, rather than in an intimidating meeting type situation. However, if you have been unable to broach the subject and feel outside assistance is warranted, a geriatric case/care manager or social worker can help lead a conversation on legal planning for seniors. You should then consult a qualified legal practitioner so your loved one can file documents to protect his or her personal and financial affairs. Locate attorneys through the National Guardianship Association (www.guardianship.org) or the National Academy of Elder Law Attorneys (www.naela.com). After one or two planning sessions, says Hammond, planning instruments—which can include a will or trust, power-of-attorney variations, and advanced directives—can be executed in one sitting.

Wills and Living Trusts

A will is a legal document that directs what should be done with a person’s assets when that person dies. It also names the will’s executor, who will be in charge of the issues surrounding those assets. If someone dies without a will or living trust, state law will dictate what is to be done with that person’s assets. According to Hammond, a will must be probated (determined to be valid and genuine) to become effective. To avoid this court process, which can be lengthy and costly, people often set up living trusts.

If done properly, a court of law typically does not need to validate a living trust, unlike for a will, according to Hammond. To create a living trust, some or all of a person’s assets are transferred to the trust, and that person (called a trustor, or creator of that trust) can name others to be in charge of the trust when she or he dies or becomes incapacitated. “The trust can continue to operate after the person dies,” Hammond says.

Living Will (or Health Care Directive)

A living will—also known as health care directive or advanced directive—is a written statement that dictates health wishes in case someone becomes incapacitated, terminally ill, or is unable to communicate her wishes. It is also important to file a legal document called a Durable Power of Attorney for Health Care (DPOAHC; see below for additional information), which names a person as a health care agent. This person has the authority to make necessary health care decisions and is responsible for ensuring that providers carry out the wishes of the incapacitated person. Creating a living will and naming a DPOAHC are simple procedures, as most states’ Area Agencies on Aging offer free forms for the public. Still, Hammond suggests “consulting with a skilled attorney when naming an agent, as powers of attorney are powerful instruments that give authority over life and death decisions.”

Durable Power of Attorney (DPOA)

To explain Durable Power of Attorney (DPOA), it’s useful to first describe an outdated legal document, the Power of Attorney (POA). The creator of a POA, called a principal, grants another person, called an attorney-in-fact, legal rights to act on the principal’s behalf. However, the moment the principal became incapacitated, the POA would be terminated and the attorney-in-fact would have no legal rights. (The disabled principal would then need a guardian; see below.) POAs are rarely used today—according to Hammond, in 16 years of legal practice he has never prepared a standard POA.

To overcome limitations of the POA, state legislatures created the DPOA, which remains in effect after a principal becomes incapacitated. Under a DPOA, a principal names an attorney-in-fact (sometimes called an agent) who will control all the principal’s affairs after the principal becomes incapacitated. In effect, the attorney-in-fact or agent becomes a legal guardian for a disabled principal.

A DPOA ensures that an attorney-in-fact will manage all the principal’s private matters, including financial and healthcare issues. Instead of naming one DPOA to cover all these contingencies, a person can create a separate Durable Power of Attorney for Healthcare (DPOAHC) or Durable Power of Attorney for Finances (DPOAF). The DPOAHC is limited to making health-related decisions for the principal, while a DPOAF only oversees financial matters for the principal. With all three documents, a principal can carve out certain areas where he doesn’t want the agent to take care of his concerns, says Hammond. For example, a principal can state that an agent can pay his property taxes, but the agent cannot sell his house.

Guardianships

If your loved one has diminished capabilities and is unable to manage his or her affairs, it may be time to talk with a legal advisor about naming a guardian to make decisions for this person. In a guardianship proceeding, a court decides whether a person with diminished mental capacity should retain his rights to make decisions about his own affairs, says Hammond.

Often a concerned family member or friend consults an attorney, who first gives guidance on obtaining medical evidence. This can involve examinations by a physician, psychologist, or psychiatrist. Once the evidence is gathered, a petition that states why guardianship is necessary is filed with the court. Then a hearing is held; usually the incapacitated person will have an attorney. “The court will ultimately decide if [the person] needs a guardian, full or limited, complete or partial,” says Hammond. “Guardianship will typically last as long as the need arises. By far, most of them last for the remainder of a person’s life.”

Hammond say fully two-thirds of guardianships in America are family guardianships. If relatives are far away or if the family dynamics are difficult, a judge will appoint a local professional guardian. There are no national guidelines for guardians, and most states do not offer guidance for this important role. However, the National Guardianship Association has developed standards of practice (www.guardianship.org, click on Standards of Practice). Guardian roles will depend on the court order that appoints the guardian and the individual state laws. According to the National Guardianship Association, a guardian may have the following responsibilities:

  • Determine and monitor residence
  • Consent to and monitor medical treatment
  • Consent to and monitor non-medical services such as education and counseling
  • Consent to release of confidential information
  • Make end-of-life decisions
  • Act as representative payee
  • Maximize independence in the least restrictive manner possible
  • Report to the court about the guardianship status at least annually
  • Marshall and protect assets
  • Obtain appraisals of property
  • Protect property and assets from loss
  • Receive income for the estate
  • Make appropriate disbursements
  • Obtain court approval prior to selling any asset
  • Report to the court on estate status

The term conservator has the same meaning as guardian in some states. Likewise, conservatorship is often interchangeable with guardianship. A conservator of the estate oversees financial concerns, while a conservator of the person manages health issues and living arrangements.

Guardianships and conservatorships are more expensive than routine planning because of the necessity of court involvement—in contested cases families can spend thousands of dollars on this expense. Guardianship proceedings are also inherently adversarial, and a contested case can be difficult for a family to overcome, says Hammond. As a last resort, guardianship may be the only way to ensure that the personal and financial affairs of a loved one are protected.

Hammond recommends legal planning for seniors that includes a DPOA, a will or living trust, and a health care directive while a person is still fully lucid. A typical plan will cost between $600 and $800, on average. While guardianships are often necessary, they can be avoided with proper planning.

It is not easy to see your loved ones decline. They had always been the strong hold of the family for so many years. Now, at times, they seem so fragile. I am not an elderlaw attorney, but when I was caregiving for my own parents a couple of years ago, I had mine differentiate being added to the mortgage and bank accounts and being Power of Attorney (POA) as you cannot make any decisions without the co-owner's approval. In other words, if you father in law became mentally incapcitated, suddenly, your husband would need to go to court to ask them to be his guardian so he can handle his affairs on his own. Being Durable POA, once the loved one can no longer make decisions on his own, your husband can take over with no questions asked. This would work the same for Medical POA. Right now you can be informed of his medical positions, but you cannot make any decisions for him as far as the next step, you must confirm with him first. This is all great while things are fine, mentally and phyically in good shape, but I recently was helping a family who did not have POA's in place and the loved one had a stroke and could not handle his health or estate issues, it took weeks to take care of the legal work because the loved on did not have full capacity to make those decisions. Everything turned out fine, but there were some interesting moments. I think it would be worth the money to have things in order now while there is still time, Powers of Attorney, Will, Trusts, Estate Planning, final arrangements, etc. Equal division of th estate is still possible to keep dad happy. I will say, after I heard what this family went through, my wife and I have everything in order, now. Hope this helps.

Posted by tonyb on 9/20/2008 8:28:32 AM

Thank you for the valuable article. My husband and I are primary caregivers to my father in law. We have been recently taking care of him in our home, dad is recovering from a car accident. It has really opened our eyes to his growing need for more care from now on. My husband usually deals with his Dad's home maintenance, repairs and his Dad has added him on the mortgage, bank accounts, life insurance, etc. I take care of his doctor visits and medicines and talking to his doctors concerning his various health problems and concerns.I believe my husband and I are added as information sharing contacts, but nothing further... I guess my question is, What is the difference between having my husband on Dad's assets and a power of attorney and would the estate be protected as it stands now? My hesitation for seeking legal advice is, Dad is happy with the arrangement we have now, he can understand it and is fearful of what he doesnt understand and just "shuts down" and refuses further consideration. We have tried many times to get him to make a will, he just wants my husband to split assests among the family, which puts us in an uncomfortable position..

Posted by Glenda Powell on 9/20/2008 2:47:43 AM

Good Wed sites to know.  Thanks!

Posted by Paul J. Hamilton on 4/7/2008 5:29:28 PM

I try to bring this topic up when I am working with the families. When a family is finding that the parents were not as legally prepared for Long Term Care or even may all the paperwork was a little outdated. After taking care of their needs, I attempt to end with a recap of what we experienced and follow that with requesting them to take a personal inventory of their own legal and and financial picture. Do they want to have their children be confronted with what they just went through? It seems to have some impact. I just pray that they will learn for this, I did.

Posted by tonyb on 3/9/2008 9:47:39 AM

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