Though there is no universal or federal definition of assisted living, the term generally refers to a continuum of long-term care services that include a combination of housing, health care and personal care services. The rise of assisted living facilities was in response to the demand for help for seniors who need assistance with everyday activities but who still wish to maintain maximum independence. Accommodations vary from facility to facility and are designed to fit every preference and budget. Some of the more typical senior housing options include individual rooms, shared quarters and private apartments.
Assisted living communities can be for- and not-for-profit. Regardless of the type of facility, all are required to adhere to state licensing requirements and policies(i). A Place for Mom has compiled a directory of assisted living licensing websites for all 50 states plus the District of Columbia. On these websites, you can find regulation standards as well as inspection summaries and violation histories for each facility.
Once upon a time, assisted living facilities were akin to nursing and retirement homes. They were cold, impersonal and lacked homey touches residents both needed and craved. Over the past 30 years, however, senior care professionals and senior living designers have revolutionized the Assisted Living Facility (ALF)(ii) concept, and now these communities truly do feel like home. How do today’s senior living communities differ from the institutions of the past? Explore just a few of the ways below:
Searching for assisted living can seem overwhelming and families often have questions about costs, timing and how to search for the best place for their loved one. We have put together a list of useful articles, resources and answers to common questions.
Assisted living services vary from community to community. That said, some services are more common than others:
The average cost of a spot in an assisted living facility in 2018 was $4,000 per monthiv. For a semi-private or private room, that average nearly and more than doubled, to $7,441 and $8,365(iv), respectively. Before you let those averages discourage you, know that the cost varies drastically across regions and is dependent upon multiple factors.
Location is one of the most significant factors that affect the cost of senior living. Communities in more desirable areas are, understandably, going to come with higher price tags, as are those in ritzier neighborhoods. However, facilities in lesser-known and/or lower-income areas are likely to offer budget-friendly prices.
For instance, if you’re looking for Assisted Living in San Diego, CA, you can expect a cost approaching $4,430 a month. In Pocatello, ID, you might pay something closer to $3,554 a month. You can use APFM’s Senior Living Cost Planner to get a better idea of the cost of senior living in your area.
The size of the assisted living apartment will also factor into the cost. In addition to having the choice between private, semi-private and shared rooms, residents can also choose between an apartment, a one-bedroom studio and a shared room.
The number and types of services your loved one needs may also affect the final price. If your loved one needs minimal care, consider a community that offers a la carte options, which would allow you to pay only for those services your aging parent needs. However, the cost of services can quickly add up. If you anticipate your loved one’s needs to grow in the future, an all-inclusive facility may be the more affordable option.
Many families get sticker shock when they realize just how high the average cost of senior care is. However, bear in mind that the average is just that — an average, and that there are steps you can take to reduce the cost of monthly expenses. Below are three easy ways to cut costs from the start:
Discuss your budget with A Place for Mom advisor, who can advise you on the best ways to save on long-term senior living.
Paying for senior care is a challenge for most families. While some are in a financial position in which they can pay for long-term care out of pocket, many must leverage assets, combine resources and use other creative means to pay for the high cost of quality care. Several families find that they benefit from a hybrid approach:
A Place for Mom senior living advisor can help you explore your payment options and guide you toward the method or combination of methods that will work best for your family.back to top
There are several types of long-term care communities in the United States, all of which are categorized as “Continuing Care Retirement Communities.” These CCRCs, otherwise known as life plan communities, are essentially retirement communities in which a continuum of aging care needs is met. They differ in the extent of and types of care they offer.
Independent living communities are ideal for seniors who lead active and independent lifestyles but who want to connect with others who are of the same age and share common interests. These seniors want to ditch home maintenance tasks such as lawn maintenance, housekeeping, laundry and meal prep in exchange for organized activities and companionship. Residents of independent living communities enjoy private apartments with living rooms, bathroom and kitchens.
The residents of assisted living facilities are unable to live on their own, whether for cognitive or physical reasons, or both. Though private apartments are available in some senior care communities, many residents opt for the more affordable semi-private rooms or private studios. Staff are on-call 24/7 and help seniors with everything from their ADLs to medical care.
Many assisted living communities have memory care units within them. Residents with advanced forms of Alzheimer’s, dementia or other types of memory problems may transition to memory care as their needs become more extensive. Memory care units provide 24-hour supervision, secured entrances and exits and additional surveillance equipment.
Residential care facilities, commonly known as board and care homes, are small, private facilities that house 20 or fewer residents at a time. Residents have the option to rent a shared or private room and are privy to round-the-clock personal care, meals and assistance. Unlike in assisted living facilities, board and care homes do not generally provide medical or nursing care on-site.
Respite care is designed to give primary caregivers a break — or respite — for just a few hours to several days a week. These short-term care providers may provide services in home, in a facility or at an adult day care center.
Skilled nursing facilities, more commonly known as nursing homes, offer more comprehensive health services than assisted living communities. Residents have access to a wide range of personal and health care services and are under 24-hour supervision. They enjoy three meals a day, and many undergo rehabilitation treatment, such as occupational, physical or speech therapy. Most people who require nursing home care go home after they recover, while some must live in these facilities permanently.back to top
It can be difficult for adult children to make the decision to transition an elderly parent or loved one into an assisted living community. However, there comes a point when the transition is necessary. This occurs when the elderly individual is unable to perform several or most activities of daily living. Signs it may be time to make the transition are as follows:
There are additional signs you can look for that may support your case or convince a hesitant parent or child. If your elderly loved one becomes aggressive towards you or other family members, frequently wanders or exhibits agitated behavior that becomes increasingly worse as the day progresses (a condition known as Sundowning(vi)), it may be time to transition from independent living to assisted living. If the older adult’s needs become increasingly complex, or if you incessantly worry about his or her safety when you’re not around, additional help may be necessary. Finally, if you find yourself avoiding your elderly parent, feeling angry toward him or her or experiencing extreme anxiety because of the stress you’re under, it may be time to relinquish control.back to top
For many families, senior care turns out to be the solution they didn’t know they needed. Not only do these families enjoy peace of mind that their loved one’s needs are being met, but they benefit in multiple other ways as well. For instance, assisted living communities minimize the need for families to relocate while maximizing residents’ autonomy, dignity, privacy, choice, safety and, most importantly, independence.
Very few families plan for long-term senior care. Those that do find that when it comes time to have the transition conversation, dialogue comes easy and without opposition. Families that don’t plan, however, find that it’s helpful to have an advisor walk them through the process. Advisors talk with families every day and have proven methods for helping the conversation along:
Whether the decision to move your aging parent into an assisted living community is made slowly and with the help of multiple family members, or if it is the result of unexpected health concerns, it is likely to come with a sense of guilt. Feelings of guilt are common in these situations, and they are unlikely to ebb once the decision is confirmed. In fact, many adult children experience increased remorse and worry as they let go of the small details they’re used to managing. The good news is, you don’t have to live with that guilt forever. Use these tips to move on from your self-reproach and to come to peace with your decision:
When searching for the right long-term care community for an aging loved one, it’s as equally helpful to know what not to do as it is to know what steps to take. You can get a head start in the search process by learning from the mistakes families have made in the past.
For starters, don’t let your preferences guide you. Rather, consider your loved one’s tastes and lifestyle to select a community at which he or she will be comfortable and happy. You also shouldn’t neglect your parent’s current of future needs. For instance, if your parent shows signs of dementia, find a community that has experience with the condition and that has a memory care unit.
You also shouldn’t conduct the search on your own. Ask for input from friends, family members and individuals who have gone through the process themselves. You should also include your aging parent in the process as much as possible so that he or she feels in control of his or her future.
Never judge a book by its cover, as lavish features and high prices are not indicators of quality care. Don’t make a decision too quickly, don’t forget to read the fine print and don’t over-emphasize proximity. Finally, don’t be afraid to ask for professional help. The advisors at A Place for Mom have extensive experience and resources that hundreds of families have used to find the right fit, and that are available to you, too.
Knowing where to start the search process can be overwhelming, as there is so much to take into consideration. That said, the best place to start is with the facts. Use the State Guide to Assisted Living Records to gain insight into everything from the frequency of inspections to inspection reports to substantiated complaints. This database can help you rule out facilities with excessive complaints against them and identify those in good standing.
A Place for Mom advisors have gone through the search process hundreds of times, from start to finish, and now they’re prepared to help you. From starting the conversation with your loved one to helping you identify the right senior living arrangement, your advisor will be with you every step of the way.Sources
(i)Sauer, A. (2018, July 18). Improved State Guide to Assisted Living Records. Retrieved from https://www.aplaceformom.com/blog/improved-state-guide-to-assisted-living-records/
(ii)Glossary of Senior Living Terms. (n.d.). Retrieved from https://www.aplaceformom.com/planning-and-advice/articles/glossary-of-senior-living-terms
(iii)Fowler, K. (2019, June 19). ADLs and IADLs. Retrieved from https://www.aplaceformom.com/blog/adls-and-iadls/
(iv)Cost of Long Term Care by State: 2018 Cost of Care Report. (n.d.). Retrieved from https://www.genworth.com/aging-and-you/finances/cost-of-care.html
(v)Eligibility for Veterans Pension (n.d.). Retrieved from https://www.va.gov/pension/eligibility/
(vi)Sundown Syndrome: Triggers & Management. (n.d.). Retrieved from https://www.aplaceformom.com/planning-and-advice/articles/sundowners-syndromeback to top
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