Last Updated: July 1, 2019
From reducing stress to having time for reflection — caregivers receive many personal rewards from journaling.
Learn more about the top 10 benefits that journaling provides caregivers, from author and caregiver, Margery Pabst.
Journaling can be a healing resource throughout life and certainly was when I became a caregiver for my parents and then later, my husband. I return to journaling often now, as a tool that provides insight for my daily life.
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I find that writing in a journal is like speaking with a trusted friend who listens and provides transformative respite. But, I understand that it can be difficult to get started, especially when busy caregiving.
Here are eight tips that you can use to begin journaling during this time:
It could be a small book or a large, trusty legal pad that has a positive association. Or, audiotaping or using the notes section of your computer may spark and stimulate your inner self. Whatever medium it is, consider the one that will encourage you to journal the most. Just like physical exercise, choose what works best for you.
Choosing a particular place and time will help develop a mindset for your thoughts. Again, choose what’s right for you, whether that is a busy lounge or cozy nook.
From a content, grammar or syntax angle, the words that fall on the page are purely yours, unedited and real in that moment of time. If I don’t evaluate, I find the flow of my thoughts are like water, first with only a few drops, but then steadily growing into an intense stream.
Like the Nike slogan, it’s easiest to just begin. I find that a small, pretty book with an appealing picture on the cover encourages and stimulates me to write. Finding a soothing, quiet scene is also a preference.
Journaling requires no set amount of style or words. Write what you want to write, however lengthy or short. Sometimes, I enter just one word or sentence which can be just as meaningful as a lengthy piece.
How can journaling be transformative to your life? Here are 10 key benefits from my experience and that of other caregivers who find journaling a useful tool:
Editor’s note: Quotes all pulled from a caregiver’s journal.
Review your journal entries from time to time, not with an evaluative eye, but with the intention of discovering personal meaning and memory. To my astonishment, I often discover that my journal has shown me the way out of a personal challenge. The answers and ideas were always there, deep in my subconscious, waiting to be written. My recommendation: review your entries about once a month to discover meaning.
Occasionally, you may wish to share some of your journal insights with others; however, your journal is first and foremost your personal respite. I have only shared my journal learnings a few times, the most poignant being with my mom because she needed to hear about a resolution with a family member; my sharing brought joy to her life as she faced death.
My hope for all of you is for more quality days that enhance your life and those of your loved ones. Journaling can be a key tool in your journey.
Margery Pabst is eCareDiary’s caregiving expert and the author of two books on caregiving: “Enrich Your Caregiving Journey” and “Words of Care,” which can be accessed on her website, mycaregivingcoach.com.
Pabst hosts two radio shows for eCareDiary, “Caregiver and Physician Conversations” and “Caregivers Speak.” Her work focuses on personal resources for the busy caregiver; she is especially passionate about the connections between the arts and illness and is the President-Elect of the Board for The National Center for Creative Aging.
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