Having meaningful conversations with your aging loved ones or grandparents can deepen your connection with them and help you to preserve priceless family stories. But having a conversation can sometimes be challenging if you’re not sure how to start. Below, we list questions to help you connect with your aging loved one on topics like childhood memories, family history, life lessons, and their achievements. Asking older loved ones thoughtful questions can give you the opportunity to share some laughs and learn about their life.
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Older generations have a wealth of information and stories to share. You can use these questions as a starting point for a conversation, but you don’t have to ask them all at once. When speaking with an aging loved one, approach each conversation with curiosity and patience. Take time to truly listen, whether you’re chatting over coffee or engaging in an activity together.
You might decide to record their insights and stories through notes or audio to preserve and share them in the future. Learning more about your loved one’s life can offer a way for you to stay connected with you loved one even after they’re gone.
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