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The cost of independent living in Selden is about $5,840 per month. To find the best independent living for your preferences and budget, browse these 35 options. Read 876 reviews, see photos, and learn about amenities that make independent living the ideal next step for adults 55+ who wish to enjoy friendships and hobbies without the hassle of cooking and home maintenance.

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as a matter fo fact tis wonderful, were moving in first week in september its a beautiful palce and theyre one of the few places we found that were in our budget when we were looking for apartments. we were...
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Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
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Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Introducing a new take on luxe living at The Cornerstone at Hauppauge. Perfectly positioned on nine sprawling acres of garden-like grounds, just south of the Long Island Expressway on Route 111; we're right where you need to be. Enjoy serene, open-air living with a private entrance to your...
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Cost of independent living in Selden, NY

The average cost of senior living in Selden is $5,840 per month. Cheaper nearby regions include Remsenburg-Speonk, NY with an average of $4,854 per month.

Average monthly cost of Independent Living in Selden, NY vs. nearby cities

Selden, NY
$5,840/mo

Average monthly cost of Independent Living in Selden, NY vs. the state and national average

Selden, NY
$5,840/mo
U.S. national average
$4,123/mo

Average monthly cost of Independent Living in Selden vs. other types of senior living

$6,196/mo
Independent Living
$5,840/mo

Median monthly costs of Independent Living in Selden, NY by room type

Semi-Private
$4,751/mo
Studio
$6,081/mo
1 Bedroom
$6,658/mo
2 Bedroom
$7,208/mo

Average cost of Independent Living in Selden over time

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What families are saying about independent living in Selden

Recent reviews for independent living in Selden

The Bristal at East Northport

4.5
The staff at the East Northport Bristal is always kind. They always have a smile on their faces and are genuinely sweet and loving to my mom. The facility is ALWAYS spotless and beautiful to live in or visit. The only area I see occasional improvement for is the food. It is not always hot and ...
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The Bristal at Massapequa

5.0
the community is very good. They have great communication, and the community is very safe. there is nothing that I don't like in this community. I would recommend this community to others

Atria Bay Shore

5.0
My aunt was living with me for a few years when tragedy struck my house. My husband passed away and I needed more help with my aunt. I tried having help at my house but it got to be more than anticipated. I decided to place her at Atria. The best decision I ever made. It’s not just an assisted ...
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Selden independent living services and amenities

These charts highlight some of the many care, dining, and entertainment offerings available in Selden independent living communities. They don’t represent all possible services and amenities available at assisted living communities in Selden, but support comparisons against nationwide offerings. Our Senior Living Advisors can help you find communities that fit your preferences.

Availability of select dietary accommodations in Selden independent living

Independent living communities help seniors maintain a balanced diet by accommodating their health needs, allergies, and other restrictions. Below you’ll find the percentage of Selden partners making specific dietary accommodations for seniors compared to the percentage of assisted living partners making those accommodations nationally.
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Nutritionist / dietician
Nutritionist / dietician
36.7%
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Low / no sodium
Low / no sodium
46.7%
35.3%
No sugar
No sugar
46.7%
31.7%
Vegetarian
Vegetarian
30%
34.3%
Pureed meals
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10.1%
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Availability of select dining options in Selden independent living

Our independent living communities know that seniors want top-quality meals and options for how they dine. The chart below indicates the percentage of Selden communities that offer dining options to their discerning residents compared to our partners nationally.
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Professional chef
Professional chef
43.3%
37.4%
Restaurant style dining
Restaurant style dining
50%
44.5%
Room service
Room service
26.7%
37.9%
Anytime dining
Anytime dining
6.7%
17.8%
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Availability of select programs and activities in Selden independent living

Senior living communities offer a variety of programming to keep seniors socially, mentally, and physically vibrant. The chart below shows what percentage of partnered independent living communities in Selden offer the selected activities, amenities, and programs compared to the percentage of partners nationwide.
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Activity director
Activity director
50%
46%
Pet-focused programs
Pet-focused programs
43.3%
28.9%
Community service programs
Community service programs
40%
33.6%
Devotional activities on-site
Devotional activities on-site
50%
48.9%
Parties / BBQs / happy hour
Parties / BBQs / happy hour
50%
50%
Outings / off-site activities
Outings / off-site activities
66.7%
55.2%
Piano or organ
Piano or organ
43.3%
43.9%
Arts and crafts center
Arts and crafts center
53.3%
39%
Educational speakers / life long learning
Educational speakers / life long learning
46.7%
42.6%
Clubs / games / karaoke
Clubs / games / karaoke
53.3%
48.3%
Live performances
Live performances
50%
47.8%
Dances
Dances
50%
33.4%
Fitness center
Fitness center
30%
40.4%
Fitness classes
Fitness classes
53.3%
47.4%
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3030 Park, a CCRC, Atria Plainview and Christian Fellowship House are the top-rated independent living facilities near Selden, New York. See full list of communities.

There are 35 independent living facilities near Selden, New York. See the full list.

The best independent living facilities near you in Selden, New York are 3030 Park, a CCRC, Atria Plainview and Atria Hertlin Place. These independent living communities received the highest rankings based on verified family reviews.

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