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How to Pay for a Nursing Home: Explore Public Programs and Private Pay Options

10 minute readLast updated June 18, 2025
Written by Rebecca Schier-Akamelu
Reviewed by Denise Lettau, J.D., wealth management specialistAttorney Denise Lettau has over 15 years of experience in the wealth management industry.
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The most common payment methods for nursing homes include health care programs like Medicare and Medicaid, as well as private insurance. Eligible veterans and their spouses can also apply for veterans benefits to cover nursing home costs. However, most families need to supplement these options with private pay methods such as savings, retirement funds, life insurance, or long-term care insurance. There are many payment options to choose from, and in most cases, people use a combination of different sources.

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Key Takeaways

  1. Original Medicare covers up to 100 days of skilled nursing care, but it doesn’t pay for long-term care in a nursing home.
  2. Medicaid covers long-term care in a nursing home, but nursing facilities may set aside only some beds for people paying with Medicaid.
  3. Long-term care insurance policies can pay for nursing home care, but your loved one would need to already have a policy.
  4. Many families choose private pay options to cover nursing home care, such as savings, pensions, stocks, and more.

Medicare

Medicare will cover short-term nursing home stays, but won’t cover long-term stays.

What Medicare covers

Original Medicare fully covers the first 20 days of care in a nursing facility, then pays $209.50 each day for days 21-100. After that, coverage stops.[01]

Medigap plans and nursing homes

Medigap or Medicare Advantage plans typically don’t cover nursing home expenses.[02] However, Martin Sbriglio, CEO of Ryders Health Management — a group of nursing homes in Connecticut — and licensed registered nurse, recommends that people consider adding a Medigap plan to their Original Medicare plan.

“If you can afford it, it’s good to buy a supplemental policy,” Sbriglio says. These plans can help reduce your out-of-pocket costs, such as copayments, coinsurance, and deductibles that arise during the 100-day period of nursing home coverage.[03]

FROM THE EXPERT: READ MEDICARE ADVANTAGE POLICIES CLOSELY

Medicare Advantage plan policyholders are sometimes unpleasantly surprised by their coverage. Some insurance companies that offer Medicare Advantage plans, also known as managed Medicare, don’t always offer as much coverage as Original Medicare. Depending on the company offering Medicare Advantage, nursing home care may only be covered if the nursing home has a contract with that Medicare Advantage plan.

Medicaid

Unlike Medicare, Medicaid will pay for extended nursing home care for people who meet income and financial asset requirements. To pay for nursing home care with Medicaid, you must choose a Medicaid-certified facility.

It’s also important to note that nursing homes may limit the number of beds they offer to people paying with Medicaid, sometimes known as a “Medicaid bed.” Some facilities don’t limit the number of Medicaid beds they have, while others only have a few.[04]

Private health insurance

Private health insurance policies vary, but you can expect most policies to cover only medically necessary services, such as:

  • Medication administration
  • Injections
  • Physical therapy

Personal care services, such as activities, dining plans, and housekeeping are less likely to be covered by private insurance.

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VA benefits

The U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) may provide long-term nursing care to qualified veterans and their spouses. Veterans and their spouses must already be signed up for VA health care and meet enrollment and eligibility requirements based on income, disability level, and location. In some cases, eligible veterans may qualify to live in specific VA nursing homes.

While benefits can often be put toward the cost of nursing home care or other long-term care options, it’s best to consult the local VA department or a recognized veterans service organization (VSO) for benefits counseling.

Long-term care insurance

Most nursing homes are categorized as custodial care, and long-term care insurance is designed to pay for custodial care, as well as personal care.

“Long-term care insurance has gotten very expensive,” says Sbriglio, “but I do recommend it.”

Long-term care insurance policies can have high premiums, and not paying the premiums can often result in a loss of coverage. It’s also important to note that if a senior is already in a nursing home, it’s not possible to purchase a new plan. Many companies don’t sell policies to older seniors or seniors who already need care.

Life insurance

Life insurance offers another way to pay for a nursing home. If your loved one has a life insurance policy, read it carefully to find the best way to finance a nursing home. In many cases, seniors can convert a portion of their policy to help them pay for their care needs, while leaving the remainder of the policy as a death benefit.

Alternatively, your loved one could sell the policy to a third party at market value or surrender their life insurance policy at cash value. Unfortunately, what seniors can expect to get in cash value is typically less than what they’ve invested over the years. However, it may be enough to help pay for their nursing home stay.

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If you’re a couple, one or both should have separate life insurance policies with the other as beneficiary. That could help pay for long-term care needs. There are so many new policies these days that provide an investment opportunity, as well as a life insurance benefit.

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Savings and other private pay methods

Many seniors and their families use savings and other private pay options to pay for a nursing home. As of 2025, the median cost for a private room in a nursing home increased to $127,750 per year.[05] For many families, this means that benefits alone won’t completely cover nursing home costs.

Sbriglio notes that with rising inflation, payment can be a pain point for many families. He recommends that people plan as early as possible for their future care needs.

The following are common options to help pay for a nursing home stay:

  • Savings. Personal savings, or out-of-pocket payments, are the primary way seniors fund long-term care, according to the National Institute on Aging.[06]
  • Pensions. A pension is a sum of money paid monthly by a retiree’s former employer. Pension amounts are generally based on position, years of service, and age at retirement.
  • Social Security benefits. While Social Security won’t be able to fully fund nursing home expenses, it can cover part of the cost. The estimated average monthly Social Security payment in 2025 is $1,976.[07]
  • Retirement income. Retirement income can include benefits from annuities, retirement or profit-sharing plans, insurance contracts, or individual retirement accounts (IRAs). Retirement income is often taxable. Speak with an accountant about potential tax breaks and credits for using retirement income to pay for nursing home care.
  • Stocks. Stock portfolios can be sold to pay for nursing home care. Speak with your loved one’s portfolio advisor to determine the best course of action.
  • Home sale.Selling a house to pay for senior care is common. In fact, the average age of a home seller in 2024 was 63, according to the National Association of Realtors.[08]
  • Assistance from family. Sometimes family members need to temporarily help their loved one pay for nursing home care, especially if their loved one needs more care than they’d planned for and they don’t qualify yet for Medicaid. It’s not uncommon for a senior to run out of money during their nursing home stay.
  • Bridge loans. These quickly available, short-term loans can be used to pay for a move to a skilled nursing facility or nursing home while assets are being liquidated or while a home is being sold.

Understanding your care and payment options

Nursing homes are the most expensive type of senior care because they provide the highest possible nursing care next to a hospital. This level of care might not be necessary, so you may want to discuss other care options with one of A Place for Mom’s Senior Living Advisors. They’ll ask questions to get a clear understanding of your loved one’s care needs and make recommendations in your area. You may want to consider assisted living or home care if your loved one doesn’t yet need 24-hour, hands-on nursing care.

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Nursing homes cost an average of $9, 277 per month for a semi-private room, or $10, 646 per month for a private room. Where you live and the amount of care you need can also affect your monthly cost.

Medicare and Medicaid are the most common payment sources for nursing home care. However,  Medicare’s nursing home coverage ends after 100 days in a skilled nursing facility. Medicaid doesn’t place a limit on the length of a senior’s stay, but you may have to wait for a Medicaid bed to be available.

The least expensive type of long-term care with 24-hour oversight is assisted living. The national median cost of assisted living is $5, 190 per month. However, costs differ depending on care needs, location, and room size. Compare options with our cost of long-term care report.

You can avoid paying your deceased mom’s nursing home bill if you didn’t sign their contract as the responsible party. Generally, your mom’s estate will be responsible for paying her bill. But you may want to consult a lawyer if you’re concerned that you might be legally responsible.

SHARE THE ARTICLE

  1. Medicare. Nursing home care.

  2. National Council on Aging. (2025, April 29). Does Medicaid pay for nursing homes? A comprehensive guide.

  3. Genworth. (2024). Cost of care survey.

  4. National Institute on Aging. (2023, October 12). Paying for long-term care.

  5. Social Security Administration. (2025). Understanding the benefits.

  6. National Association of Realtors. (2024, July 7). Quick real estate statistics.

Rebecca Schier-Akamelu is a senior copywriter at A Place for Mom, specializing in topics such as assisted living and payment options. With more than a decade of experience as a content creator, Rebecca brings a person-centered approach to her work and holds a certificate in digital media and marketing from Duke University.
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Danny Szlauderbach is a Video Producer and a former Managing Editor at A Place for Mom, where he's written or reviewed hundreds of articles covering a wide range of senior living topics, from veterans benefits and home health services to innovations in memory care. Since 2010, his editing work has spanned several industries, including education, technology, and financial services. He’s a member of ACES: The Society for Editing and earned a degree in journalism from the University of Kansas.
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Attorney Denise Lettau has over 15 years of experience in the wealth management industry.
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