Mar 20, 2015 - 12:02 PM
If you haven’t already tried it, you might ask for a more formal, sit down, family meeting. That may give the message that you are serious and need to talk.
If that doesn’t work, put your wishes in writing and give everyone a copy. At least, that way you have made the information available to them.
I wish you luck. I realize it can be frustrating when you have trouble getting someone to listen to you.