Feb 08, 2015 - 01:40 PM
He may feel mor comfortable talking to his brother because it is a voice he still recognizes more than other voices.
I think my husband also stopped talking on the phone because he dod not want to "make a mistake and say something wrong". But I will never know the real reason why.
As to why he does not want you to visit it is possible that he is afraid he will make a mistake and be embarrased if he does something "wrong"
Don't ask him when you can come visit. Tell him you will see him on ...what ever day you can get to visit.
He may also be embarrased if he is not keeping the house as clean as he had in the past. If you nitice that is the case don't pester him about it but you might want to make one of your visits on a day before garbage day and just take some of the garbage out for him.
Hoarding does become a problem for some people so watch for that.
Feb 28, 2016 - 07:14 PM