Jan 14, 2015 - 12:54 AM
We still have very awkward moments when Mum talks very loud about people in a restaurant we are in, they either ignore her, I or my husband manages to speak to them which is ok - some have even said they knew she had Dementia because of her eyes? More than a few have said that.
May 14, 2015 - 11:23 AM
As mentioned earlier I have heard families do just that, it helps the person she is attempting to interact with not take her questions or comments so personal. That being said it's important to realize when enough is enough. Is taking your mom out in public on a regular basis helpful for you (it sounds like it may cause you undue frustration) and/or create some level of anger and frustration for her. I think a good question to ask yourself is why you are taking her out? Is it becaues you have no one to watch her? Because you want to be sure she sees other people and stays active? It might be a good idea to check into the services offered for seniors with memory loss through a day program, a respite program or resources to come into the home so you can get away and so she can have the interaction we as human beings crave, despite memory loss or not. The local Alzheimer's Association as well as the local Area Agency on Aging are good starts for many families. You may want to also consider contacting a Senior Living Advisor at A Place for Mom about respite services for seniors with memory loss. You can usually reach someone at 1-866-568-2989 who can connect you with an Advisor in your local area.